1. Am I in love?
We can't fall in or out of love, since love is unconditional.
We are attracted more or less to different people, because we are looking for certain type of interactions and treatment. How I treat myself now is exactly what I want my relationship to reflect. People we choose simply mirror our qualities in lesser or grander manner and that is a very delicate subject - for it can enhance or destruct our own understanding of unity to all and self. This interaction can also separate us even more so from oneness. But that is also a path into discovering self.
Am I in love? With myself first. Yes.
2. Who am I?
I am a girl looking for her identity through different types of experiences, constantly changing shapes and mindsets, depending on a situation, gaining knowledge and wisdom, hopefully, moving on with grace and love for all, carrying little pain from an experience.
3. What is my purpose?
I want to meet real Ania, the one that resides within myself, at a very core of my existence, independent from others, connected to all. I want to find my purpose and make a difference in this lifetime for the better and in a grand way, affecting many, not few people.
4. What am I doing about it?
I am trying to find a way and the very thing I can change lives with. How I can influence the humanity to become more aware, genuine, and together - something I want to figure out.
5. Are You succeeding?
Not sure. It's hard to deliver the message and the reasoning. People are attracted to me for all sorts of reasons. Some do connect with me on the deepest levels, being brave and capable. It is a joy to see them open up and become free to be themselves. And then it backfires as I am being seen as a possession, manipulated and expected to be someone else apart from who I am. It almost never works.
6. What can be done about it?
I am to keep a distance and engage in the process slowly and more careful. No hurt, not getting hurt at the end. Can no more give my %100 before I find my purpose and am ready to be committed to self and the one.
7. What are my pluses?
I am blessed with being attractive physically, charming, easy-going, fun, and I generate amazing energy when in a good mood. I wish others well and try to help actively through love and kindness.
8. What are the negatives?
I am not always honest with myself and others. I hide behind a happy face when, in fact, I am in pain... I learned that character so well and am good at it. Happy Ania is not always exactly that... Two-faced. :/
I am lazy when not committed to a goal, become easily depressed, and love to dwell in self-pity.
I am fearful, no... paranoid of change for the better.
9. How do I see life in general?
Basically, the whole experience of being present here comes down to generating the most amount of joy by doing genuine activities and things that are pleasurable for self and non-offensive to others. Joy creates more joy, it's contagious. Living a pleasant life and being passionate about it will bring success and doesn't have to be approved by nobody else. Success is a pursuit of one's joy, not happiness. Happiness is temporary bliss that comes and goes. Happiness is a state of absolute joy, excitement, a sense of accomplishment. We have been confusing the blissful feelings while being content, which is joy, with the need of constant euphoria that is impossible thing to achieve and we call it happiness.
A human nature is not wholesome. We are greedy by default and are never satisfied with the what we've got. Even when we get what we want or everything we want, we won't be satisfied. Therefore, we are to be careful with what we get ourselves into, while looking for the instant gratification.
While being directed by others towards the meaning of life, the ways, and the means of how we are to go about it, we are going to fail and be disappointed, for every person is looking for something different. There is not one formula that works for everybody. It is vital to listen to others and their stories and to observe their path, yet, it's important to act with personal inner compass, being guided by own internal vision. Our own intuition is the only guide that we are to follow open-heartedly. We only gain wisdom from own experience.
Living a life without fear is what we are to strive for. Fear often comes from forced agendas and concerns/opinions of others. We have to learn to trust ourselves, our higher selves. Listening to Your own song within at all times gives You a chance to create a dance in a flawless manner. Fear is an imaginary resistance force that is in the way of Your own progress in an ultimate human experience.
Nothing is to be judged and labeled. Life is perfect. Some things are more pleasant than others, and You have to go through the unpleasant experiences to progress, not regress. Trust the thought that all is well, was, and always will be. Love Yourself, no matter what choice You make and make that choice listening to Your heart, not someone's mouth. When one is whole and complete, there is no point of judging and labeling. Life becomes simple, nourishing, and meaningful.
Life is about finding self within and sharing self through love, kindness, and care with others. It is about being an inspiration in someone else's life, about becoming fearless and with that, limitless and free.
10. What is love?
Love is the source of life's energy, ever present, ever flowing, limitless. Nobody can gift You with it. The feeling of love is contagious. The experience of love is always desirable. The essence of love comes from within, not outside self. When we look for love elsewhere, we become conditioned, codependent. We are no longer free. Freedom is what the experience of being human is all about.
Care is a way for showing love, and only when we learn to take care of ourselves, love ourselves, we can do it with and for others.
Love is selfless and unconditional. Love is simply is...
11. How to live life without suffering?
Once we commit to love ourselves, we become more aware of our personal needs, desires, likes and dislikes, we are more intuitive with what makes us tick and what we are after. We automatically will stop mistreating ourselves and won't let others mistreat us. We will become less reactive to the surrounding conditions and will be able to respond with the best powerful response that will not hurt us or others. That will eliminate suffering. It is the pure understanding and the clear vision of the reality in the way it is. Being aware and not being delusional will leave no room for suffering.
We have to be honest with ourselves and others to be one in a flow with life. Joy and suffering can not coexist. Pleasing others first and self second brings pain to our life. Not following our own bliss and internal calling will do the same.
12. If I were to advertise love, how would it go?
"My favorite food is my mama's cooking - always made with love.
Babies are the most beautiful product made out of love.
As far as I remember, my best memories in life are all connected to being in love, no matter of the age, race, sex, or a social status of my lover, love always made me feel so very special.
Some of the most famous songs are about it.
L.O.V.E.
Not to be mistaken with sex, which is not always a byproduct of love and can easily produce a baby, equally the same, as love usually does.
Love: good for Your health, sex life, sleeping patterns, productivity, inspiration, happiness, and all aspects of life. Start loving today!"
We can't fall in or out of love, since love is unconditional.
We are attracted more or less to different people, because we are looking for certain type of interactions and treatment. How I treat myself now is exactly what I want my relationship to reflect. People we choose simply mirror our qualities in lesser or grander manner and that is a very delicate subject - for it can enhance or destruct our own understanding of unity to all and self. This interaction can also separate us even more so from oneness. But that is also a path into discovering self.
Am I in love? With myself first. Yes.
2. Who am I?
I am a girl looking for her identity through different types of experiences, constantly changing shapes and mindsets, depending on a situation, gaining knowledge and wisdom, hopefully, moving on with grace and love for all, carrying little pain from an experience.
3. What is my purpose?
I want to meet real Ania, the one that resides within myself, at a very core of my existence, independent from others, connected to all. I want to find my purpose and make a difference in this lifetime for the better and in a grand way, affecting many, not few people.
4. What am I doing about it?
I am trying to find a way and the very thing I can change lives with. How I can influence the humanity to become more aware, genuine, and together - something I want to figure out.
5. Are You succeeding?
Not sure. It's hard to deliver the message and the reasoning. People are attracted to me for all sorts of reasons. Some do connect with me on the deepest levels, being brave and capable. It is a joy to see them open up and become free to be themselves. And then it backfires as I am being seen as a possession, manipulated and expected to be someone else apart from who I am. It almost never works.
6. What can be done about it?
I am to keep a distance and engage in the process slowly and more careful. No hurt, not getting hurt at the end. Can no more give my %100 before I find my purpose and am ready to be committed to self and the one.
7. What are my pluses?
I am blessed with being attractive physically, charming, easy-going, fun, and I generate amazing energy when in a good mood. I wish others well and try to help actively through love and kindness.
8. What are the negatives?
I am not always honest with myself and others. I hide behind a happy face when, in fact, I am in pain... I learned that character so well and am good at it. Happy Ania is not always exactly that... Two-faced. :/
I am lazy when not committed to a goal, become easily depressed, and love to dwell in self-pity.
I am fearful, no... paranoid of change for the better.
9. How do I see life in general?
Basically, the whole experience of being present here comes down to generating the most amount of joy by doing genuine activities and things that are pleasurable for self and non-offensive to others. Joy creates more joy, it's contagious. Living a pleasant life and being passionate about it will bring success and doesn't have to be approved by nobody else. Success is a pursuit of one's joy, not happiness. Happiness is temporary bliss that comes and goes. Happiness is a state of absolute joy, excitement, a sense of accomplishment. We have been confusing the blissful feelings while being content, which is joy, with the need of constant euphoria that is impossible thing to achieve and we call it happiness.
A human nature is not wholesome. We are greedy by default and are never satisfied with the what we've got. Even when we get what we want or everything we want, we won't be satisfied. Therefore, we are to be careful with what we get ourselves into, while looking for the instant gratification.
While being directed by others towards the meaning of life, the ways, and the means of how we are to go about it, we are going to fail and be disappointed, for every person is looking for something different. There is not one formula that works for everybody. It is vital to listen to others and their stories and to observe their path, yet, it's important to act with personal inner compass, being guided by own internal vision. Our own intuition is the only guide that we are to follow open-heartedly. We only gain wisdom from own experience.
Living a life without fear is what we are to strive for. Fear often comes from forced agendas and concerns/opinions of others. We have to learn to trust ourselves, our higher selves. Listening to Your own song within at all times gives You a chance to create a dance in a flawless manner. Fear is an imaginary resistance force that is in the way of Your own progress in an ultimate human experience.
Nothing is to be judged and labeled. Life is perfect. Some things are more pleasant than others, and You have to go through the unpleasant experiences to progress, not regress. Trust the thought that all is well, was, and always will be. Love Yourself, no matter what choice You make and make that choice listening to Your heart, not someone's mouth. When one is whole and complete, there is no point of judging and labeling. Life becomes simple, nourishing, and meaningful.
Life is about finding self within and sharing self through love, kindness, and care with others. It is about being an inspiration in someone else's life, about becoming fearless and with that, limitless and free.
10. What is love?
Love is the source of life's energy, ever present, ever flowing, limitless. Nobody can gift You with it. The feeling of love is contagious. The experience of love is always desirable. The essence of love comes from within, not outside self. When we look for love elsewhere, we become conditioned, codependent. We are no longer free. Freedom is what the experience of being human is all about.
Care is a way for showing love, and only when we learn to take care of ourselves, love ourselves, we can do it with and for others.
Love is selfless and unconditional. Love is simply is...
11. How to live life without suffering?
Once we commit to love ourselves, we become more aware of our personal needs, desires, likes and dislikes, we are more intuitive with what makes us tick and what we are after. We automatically will stop mistreating ourselves and won't let others mistreat us. We will become less reactive to the surrounding conditions and will be able to respond with the best powerful response that will not hurt us or others. That will eliminate suffering. It is the pure understanding and the clear vision of the reality in the way it is. Being aware and not being delusional will leave no room for suffering.
We have to be honest with ourselves and others to be one in a flow with life. Joy and suffering can not coexist. Pleasing others first and self second brings pain to our life. Not following our own bliss and internal calling will do the same.
12. If I were to advertise love, how would it go?
"My favorite food is my mama's cooking - always made with love.
Babies are the most beautiful product made out of love.
As far as I remember, my best memories in life are all connected to being in love, no matter of the age, race, sex, or a social status of my lover, love always made me feel so very special.
Some of the most famous songs are about it.
L.O.V.E.
Not to be mistaken with sex, which is not always a byproduct of love and can easily produce a baby, equally the same, as love usually does.
Love: good for Your health, sex life, sleeping patterns, productivity, inspiration, happiness, and all aspects of life. Start loving today!"
